Hymen repair and a prettier vagina: the current zeitgeist?

by Baba

These are changing times, right! The emancipation of women has made them strong, fearless, and courageous. We forge forward to go where no woman has gone before and we play on the same grounds that were once the exclusive preserve of men. We are strong, beautiful and confident and we believe that sexual attraction should be followed through. Sex before marriage is perfectly fine and woe to any man or women or even society pundits who dare to tell us otherwise. We are in a modern world where women are in everyway equal to men.

Wrong! These may be modern times but we still have an ancient mindset. Women might have forged forward but the men are still languishing behind. Women may be sexually emancipated but ancient beliefs of virginity are still around and hold strong. Men from any generation are still the same and will remain the same. The very idea of having a virgin blushing bride that comes untouched to the marital bed can still be a huge turn on for any man, whether he is sexually experienced or not. This disproportion in the male: female perception of sex before marriage is now causing a huge uproar in the media. And the main outrage is whether women should conceal the fact that they have had sex before marriage, and then get their hymen repaired to “fool” men into thinking they have virgin brides!

What is the hymen? What does it do?

It’s a fact that the female reproductive system is located very near to the outside of the body. The vagina is a self cleansing organ but it leads to an internal tube called the vaginal canal that ends in the uterus. The vaginal canal can be about five to six inches long and there are very good chances that an errant bacteria sitting on toilet bowls or contaminated tampons will swim upwards causing infections of the uterus. For women getting frequent infections of the urinary tract and the neck of the cervix can be really painful and uncomfortable. Frequent vaginal discharge, aches and pains, fevers and even spotty blood in the vagina is a common sign of a uterine infection. As a result, to protect the female reproductive system, nature naturally provided the vaginal canal with a so called gate called the hymen. This was a small strip or veil of tissue that covered the opening of the vaginal canal. But every woman is unique. Just as you would find women with blond hair and brunette hair, there are very good chances that female children will be born without a hymen or half a hymen. Similarly women who have active physical lives like horse riding, bicycling, and who use tampons can have their hymens prematurely ruptured due to the vigorous activity. The appearance of the hymen is also very different as you look at the following picture

Medically speaking

There is no reason to assume that an intact hymen indicates a virgin. Hymens can vary in size, shape and thickness and a few female children are born without any hymen at all. Each different appearance is given a particular like an annular hymen, a septate hymen, ring hymen etc. It’s not possible for a hymen to completely cover the vaginal canal as menstrual fluid has to leak out through the same opening. There are rare cases where a completely covered vaginal opening due to a thick and complete hymen can block the vaginal canal. The woman will find it difficult to pass urine, evacuate menstrual fluids, wear a tampon and even have penetrative sex. It might be necessary to have a physician to manually cut the hymen open but this is rare.

Cultural significance of an intact hymen

Since ancient times, the presence of the hymen was essential to prove the virginity of the bride before marriage. An intact hymen was checked for by a neutral party before marriage to ensure that the bride was not a pig in a poke! And the process is still done by a few cultures till date. Mother of the bride and the mother-in-law get together to confirm that the groom is getting prime untouched marital beef! And god forbid, if the hymen appears to be broken. Honor killings both on the bride’s side and by the groom’s side are still very common in countries like India and Pakistan. Other cultures that have a strong insistence of the presence of an intact hymen are Muslims from Indonesia, Arabia, and Malaysia.

The focus has always been on marrying a woman who is sexually pure for her husband. And this fact was reinforced by a French court in the northern city of Lille. The court had to annul a 2006 marriage between two French Muslims when the groom discovered on his nuptial night that the bride was not a virgin. He climbed off the nuptial bed and went out to the still partying wedding guests to announce the fact and the bride was delivered right then and there back to her parents doorstep! And the horror of the fact was that the man was a French national, with an engineer’s degree aged about 30 with considerable sexual experience of his own as the tabloids later discovered! According to sociologists, countries that focus on virginity usually are underdeveloped and have limited resources, the people are poor and clan systems are very strong. To assure the family that any progeny is purely from the same clan, marrying a virgin is purely crucial. After all, they cannot afford or access DNA testing and they will not be fooled into to supporting another mans child!

Why so much uproar about such an itty-bitty tissue?

The French courts ruling surprised the entire country at the time. When it can be possible for the court to rule that the loss of the hymen was a breach of contract as the groom had agreed to the marriage because he was told that the woman was single and chaste! The ruling aptly demonstrated the current zeitgeist of the times: the paramount importance of religion into daily life, the insistence of certain cultures for virgin brides for marriage and the inequality of the sexes as related to premarital sex!

Says Zubeidaa Halleem,“I have been studying in the US for the last ten years and the culture here is very different! I fell in love with this fellow student and we followed up our relationship with a sexual relationship too. At the time, even though my family was very orthodox and they did not know about him, I had decided that this man would be my life partner so it did not really matter. But eventually, we broke up. My family has fixed my marriage with a man back in Morocco and I will have to do something. If it means surgery then so be it! Earlier it was possible to fool a man by dropping a few drops of blood on the wedding sheets and tying up pubic hair into knots to simulate a difficult penetration…but it’s not that easy now.” And her practical attitude just demonstrates is the current attitude towards women who do have sex before marriage. Arab women or Muslim women (not the only minority who opts for the surgery) often travel long distances and give fake names and addresses to carry out the 20 minute surgery that can cost anywhere from $400- $1000. And the sad fact is that they think is an entirely justifiable expense.

What does the surgery of hymen repair entail?

A hymen repair surgery is just one method of making a fake hymen at the opening of the vaginal canal. The entire process takes about ten minutes and the cost of the procedure can vary according to what else you want to include in the surgery. A few women ask only for a hymenorraphy where the hymen is recreated by stitching the remnants together. Surgeons also offer an option of inserting a gelatin filled delicate capsule that is filled with blood like material that will be released on penetration. A new hymen can also be built by the doctor by taking tissues from the vaginal wall. But the only drawback with the process is that most doctors agree that hymenorraphy is not taught in medical colleges and it can be a risky procedure if not done properly. The process was first tried by am American doctor called Dr David Matlock who then trained a handful of others in the same process. Most patients are also advised no sex and no physical exercise for six to ten weeks after the procedure till healing is complete. Of course the price of the surgery will also vary with costs ranging from $1000-$2000 in the US and ranging to as low as $700 in countries that encourage medical tourism. Countries like China and Korea encourage hymen reconstruction and offer as much as a 50% discount for students and women who want to look their best.

Bottom line is…..

It’s sad but it’s a fact. When you have everything to lose in the form of loving family, a potentially wealthy husband who will care and love you and a happily married life; a single hymen seems to weight very less against it! If you can afford it and if it reassures your potential partner then no one has the right to tell you what to do. No one needs to know and you don’t need to tell your husband about it. You can even ask your doctor to expunge the surgery from medical records. All you have to do is make sure no one finds out about it.

Is it just women who want to fool potential husbands who are doing the surgery?

No its not! Surprisingly there is another category of woman who voluntarily does the procedure without any fear of reprisals! If there are thousands of modem Muslim women students getting the hymen repair done to assure their husbands of their purity; then there are an equally large number of women doing the surgery as a gift to their husbands and partners after several years of marriage! That’s right! Prettification or beautification of the vagina, repair of the hymen and tightening of the vaginal canal are just a few of the procedures that are being opted for by women in their late 30s as anniversary or second honeymoon gifts for their husband.

What does prettification of the vagina mean!!!

Just what it says! Doctors and surgeons can pull, tweak, bleach and clean up your privates to make them look as pretty as possible just like a little hair peach. A few doctors have stated that reducing the size of the labia, polishing up the internals and building up a hymen are just a few of the procures that wealthy married women are going in for to make their men happy. Women are willing to be revirginsed ten years into their marriage just to keep the sparkle alive with second honeymoons. Hymenoplastys, hymenorraphy, vaginal rejuvenation, labioplasty were a few of the techniques that have been opted for and they seem to have increased in popularity over the last few years. Recreational hymenorraphy is now a trend with the regular advertising appearing at the back of women’s magazines and costs dropping to about $1,000. Medical tourism has also got into the act with countries like China, Hong Kong and Thailand offering a tour and a package deal where they offer surgery, plus travel and a second honeymoon.

Is it a fad?

Prettification can work but it just seems to be another shallow depth that society women are drooping to. For women who have had multiple pregnancies and now experience problems like loose vaginal canals, urinary incontinence and other problems; tightening up the vaginal canal is an essential operation that is very necessary for pelvic health. Just carrying out the surgery to zing up marriage is really nonsense! But hey, its your money and your life.

{ 76 comments… read them below or add one }

sahar January 27, 2010 at 6:58 pm

how many days before the hymen repair the girl should prevent the sex?

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Nawal Yahya April 30, 2010 at 10:07 am

i want to do this surgery

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sarah April 30, 2010 at 10:53 am

please give me details about the surgery

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mina May 5, 2010 at 12:52 am

can you please give me information about the surgery?? i need to do it..

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nisha May 12, 2010 at 6:08 am

I want my hymen back what i want to do there is any other way without a surgery.

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elnaz June 10, 2010 at 5:19 am

hi!
i need to some photos of repired hymen.

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arash June 23, 2010 at 8:57 am

please give more photos

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vahoumanah June 26, 2010 at 9:57 am

please send me some photos of repired hymen.

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sara July 24, 2010 at 9:07 pm

i did this operation it took 15 mins it hurt like hell for the week after but later u will be able to do everything like u used to

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sara July 24, 2010 at 9:08 pm

I DID IT

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sara July 24, 2010 at 9:10 pm

i did this operation it took 15 mins i didnt sleep at the clinic i went home as i was done but the week after the operation it hurts like hell but after everything well be back as normal

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iqra December 19, 2013 at 5:27 am

reallyy? OMG.. from where did u get opperated? with city? and how much did u pay?

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iqra December 19, 2013 at 5:29 am

which* city?

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Rachel August 2, 2010 at 7:42 am

Hi – I’m writing an article about this for a UK national newspaper, and I’m looking to speak to women who have had “hymen repair” procedures, or feel they need/want to have it done.
I understand that this is a very sensitive issue, but if you would be interested in speaking to me, anonymously if necessary, please email me at rp*****m@yahoo.co.uk.
Absolute discretion guaranteed. Many thanks.

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Dalia October 23, 2010 at 11:00 pm

Sara, im getting my sugery done soon, but first i want to know is it true you have got to do it before u get married like 1 week or something otherwise it goes? or can i get it done like next week and wont be married until a year please answer me !!

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saraN November 1, 2010 at 9:32 am

sara where did u get the surgery from.. i need to hav it.. i need details.. whr u from… help needed please….

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subha November 24, 2010 at 8:22 am

can any one give me contact in pakistan karachi hymnoplasty surgeon plzzzzzz help me dera plzzzzzzz

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reema November 28, 2010 at 6:56 pm

please tel me if u knw any in islamabad pakistan

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saba December 21, 2010 at 10:37 am

plz help me
plz tell me if u know any in lahore pakista any surgeon in lahore

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Tahira January 10, 2011 at 5:01 am

any body tell me the easy way to “dasi Tariqa) for first night

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ehtesham July 19, 2013 at 5:38 pm

hi ,
Desi tareeqa is simple , that is give your man the date of marriage during periods and then pretend that ur cycle had been disturbed just a week before marriage due to diet controls or what ever and let him penetrate by the last date of ur periods and tell him the blood on the sheets is of breaking hymen but not of mences and this is the easiest way to fool

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h.a April 8, 2011 at 8:06 am

hi
give me many informetion before hymen repair the girl

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anvesha April 24, 2011 at 1:20 pm

how many cost of this surgery?

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gull May 4, 2011 at 4:28 am

please give me information i need to repair hymen? please soon tell me cost of it i really need

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kurdi June 21, 2013 at 2:20 am

where are you from?answer me i wanna help you

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seher July 14, 2013 at 8:45 am

lease give me information i need to repair hymen? please soon tell me cost of it i really nee

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Iqra May 4, 2011 at 5:51 pm

PLease tell me about any hymen surgeon in islamabad Pakistan….. can a gynaecologist repair hymen?

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salwa May 22, 2011 at 9:03 am

is there any surgeon for hymenoplasty in karachi plz tell if any one knows

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salwa May 23, 2011 at 5:15 pm

is anyone know any hymenoplasty surgeon in karachi help needed

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noor May 31, 2011 at 3:14 am

hi.can somebody tell me abt a clinic in gujranwala.

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sheeba khan July 4, 2011 at 9:10 am

can you please give me information about the surgery?? i need to do it..

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sheeba khan July 4, 2011 at 9:16 am

and i have some more questions.how many cost of this hymen surgery? how many days before the hymen repair the girl should prevent the sex? please send me some photos of repaired hymen. and is anyone know any hymenoplasty surgeon in karachi help needed?

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fatma July 6, 2011 at 5:08 am

its good ,, bt did it look like natural hymen

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ashley July 15, 2011 at 1:58 pm

dam u guys all from pakistan hoessss

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mina July 26, 2011 at 2:27 am

ah ah my vagina is very bad its very small and i cant have a baby

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nazanin August 5, 2011 at 10:41 am

hi,I my hymen wont broken until i born my baby ,i need to picture of my hymen?
if i have sex what happen will occur in my hymen?
plz help me

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helpless August 18, 2011 at 6:16 am

i want adress of doctor who can repair my hymen in lahore and should be economical..

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aisha August 21, 2011 at 10:14 pm

want to know about a clinic in lahore plz reply me fast

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zaraahmad August 21, 2011 at 10:50 pm

want to a surgory in lahore plz tel me

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neha August 28, 2011 at 4:00 am

my vegina size is very small i after surgery same sex & baby birth please help me

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naeem September 8, 2011 at 2:25 am

my girlfriend is getting it done in Lahore.Cost will be 80,000 and it will take a day’s stay if possible. Surgery is done with local anesthesia and takes an hour

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Blind October 5, 2011 at 11:01 am

Want to know about the hymen surgery in Malaysia where it is done and it costs how much. For how much time does these hymen last?

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Rani November 7, 2011 at 4:53 am

इन सब से मेरा लण्‍ड खडा होता है और कुछ नही

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iqra November 22, 2011 at 4:05 pm

i need help i am 19 and i want it to be done as soon as possible i was 16 when i lost my virginity plz help me doing it in karachi

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SAAD November 28, 2011 at 5:18 am

WHAT A SHAME. I CAN’T BELIEVE THAT THIS IS GOING IN MY COUNTRY. ALL OF U ARE THINKING JUST TO SATISFY ONE MAN AND SAVE UR LIFE. HAVE U EVER THINK WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO U AFTER DEATH? HOW MUCH MODERN U COULD B BUT ITS A FACT THAT WE WILL DIE AND WE HAVE TO FACE MY GOD.

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Anonymous 1 November 29, 2011 at 4:49 am

i need to know where it is done in islamabad… have to get it done soon.

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anon November 29, 2011 at 7:07 am

can anyone tell me where it is done in Islamabad… plz plz

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Sana November 29, 2011 at 12:34 pm

can anyone please tell me about hymenoplasty surgery in islamabad.. have to get it done soon.

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Sana November 29, 2011 at 12:46 pm

please tell me clinics in islamabad who are offering this surgery

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sana November 29, 2011 at 1:03 pm

please tell me some clinics in islamabad who are offering this surgery

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diya December 8, 2011 at 6:01 am

hy any body tell me repair the hymen(dasi tariqa) ,help me plz

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Reza January 21, 2012 at 11:11 am

please Send me

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mahnoor January 22, 2012 at 7:39 pm

hey can you tell me about this surgery in vancouver Canada and also how much it will cost??

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hina February 17, 2012 at 5:02 pm

i wont to know whether can i do this procedure in china?

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lili February 26, 2012 at 7:49 am

my english is very bad,but i try to help someone.
the ability of sex after this surgery independ on kind of surgery. u have ask this from your dr. for example about 1kind of this surgery, must do this surgery 3 to 7 days before u get married
and about an other kind of this seurgery needs time like 3 to 6 months
the surgery 15-45 minutes . and after that u can go home
u must care your vaginal until 7-10 days.for example when u go bathroom(toilet) for bowl u never pressure your body(dont push very much)
u have to eat fruit and juicy and meat . i see many girls in pakistan have problem about this, i pray about all of u . god bless every girls which had this problem

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Sabiq Shah March 6, 2012 at 8:23 am

Dear All
Its really not a good position of our country but anyhow you can contact me to solve your problem.***@gmail.com

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Anya March 11, 2012 at 1:50 am

Hi Baba! Really helpful article! Could you provide me more info as to where top get this done from. I am sure my boyfriend will love it… Please do reply

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koki July 31, 2012 at 2:39 pm

Sorry but you forgot that women who have been raped, and that choice to give their virginity/share their hymen with the person they love taken away, there’s such reasons for this surgery too.

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Udmercy August 11, 2012 at 9:06 am

Dear all!!! what matter here is ur life or your pride to your husband.what i really want to know is whether ther will be apperance of blood when having sex.pls try and reply

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Haania October 1, 2012 at 10:27 am

Its a good artical,,,but sorry to say that you missed the girls who are raped,,,
All the girls are not cheap and modren,,,cheap girls not need this surgery,,
They can satisfy their husbands by their sharp mind,,,
But the innocent girls been raped,,or mistrusted need this.,,,,
Dear girls,,,,
Dont allow the world to laugh at you,,, dont ask the persons for help who has no heart,,,
This is a num for artifical hymen for rs.6000(****)
And
This is a clinic in Lahore (***) for hymen surgery,,,
May God solve ur problem,,,but plz dont ask help from the people who dont feel the pain of others,,

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asma November 16, 2012 at 4:50 am

naeem please tell me in where in lahore can get its treatment.

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asma November 26, 2012 at 3:57 pm

can u please send me the detail of surgery in pakistan in lahore isblamabad or karachi.

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sadaf February 8, 2013 at 9:17 am

can u please send me the detail of surgery in pakistan in isblamabad..any contact details..but female doctor not male..and how long before marriage

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deeny March 2, 2013 at 2:16 pm

hy me from lahoreee,,,,,,,,,,i wanaa again virgin
plzz send me the detail and clinicc info plxxxxxxxx

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deeny March 2, 2013 at 2:17 pm

sara from where u get that operation
and it is severe pain fulll
i need some videoxxx

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Amour March 29, 2013 at 7:07 pm

Goooz!!! 🙂

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Lahore April 15, 2013 at 5:36 am

Hi all,

and girls please forget about the surgery they are all here to earn some money from you so dont go for surgery just do some kegal exsersise and confidently go for marrage.

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Anonymous April 21, 2013 at 4:39 am

When I was 9 or 10 year old I have been child abused by some mens over 30years. And when I was 17 my boyfriend fingered me and it broke my hymen so easily because my hymen was already half-raptured. I need that surgery. I’m 17 now and I like in Karachi. My parents don’t know what happened to me in childhood because no one would believe me If I tell them.

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padma May 20, 2013 at 9:10 am

Hi,

Mine is a totally diff issue my dearest Hubbi could not even break my Hymen and wen I went to gynecologist she said I was a virgin & she broke it.Till then I had no idea.Later we found that my Hubbi was not even a MAN. After 3 year of stupid I divorced Him. Now I want to know how it feels the first time. IS that too bad..

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rameenmalik July 31, 2013 at 6:04 am

hey me from islamabad i wana again virgn plz snd me the dtail of clinic n cost ? plz plz plz

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rameenmalik July 31, 2013 at 6:06 am

hey me from islamabad plz snd me adress n phone number

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saim ali November 20, 2013 at 4:51 pm

surgery info required islamabad

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mohamed December 13, 2013 at 2:45 am

my friend. dun even think about the surgery…this is a business for some people…more than 22% of the girls never bleed during their first sex….
you can be the one….22% is too damn high percentage…it means from 4 girls 1 girl never bleed, even she was virgin and never had sex….just have high self confidence and live ur life without any stress…
go to google and do much more search to believe my words….i am educated and living in free country and have had many sexual experiences and based on my experiences i am telling you, NEVER EVER do the surgery and just practice on ur confidence.

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Alaf Khan February 12, 2014 at 9:53 am

Stupid Girls ! No one can repair the hymen. Once it broken by fingering or by sex with male, it could not be repaired. You can ask this to any Lady Doctor. This kind of articles and views from (fake) girls are just traps. Men with fake names & Id’s get your secrets/informations and then trap the girls and fuck them.

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hud April 13, 2014 at 5:17 am

 Hi , 

I want to ask about hymen repair surgery how much you do?   

 

How long will take?  

Can I return in same day,?

Somebody can take me from airport and return me?

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annie May 1, 2014 at 10:19 am

can someone tell details about hymen repair surgery in lahore???

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